This is most definitely a time of change, on many levels, for the majority of people across the world. Very few landscapes have not been affected, or had enforced change, by the restrictions and implications of the coronavirus. Personally, my consultancy of working face-to-face is fast-changing as I adopt Zoom calls, online workshop creation and live webinars. Don’t get me wrong, I love being challenged professionally and finding the flex and skills to learn new approaches, up-skill my technical knowledge and adapt my style of presenting, has been really exciting and created a new sense of purpose and drive for me.
 
I am acutely aware how change can cause undue stress and worry and changes that are entirely at the mercy of something out of your control, incur an even greater degree of concern. Having strategies and techniques to call on at times like these is imperative. Here are some that I have drawn on over the years (and now) to help get me through challenging times.

• Consider what is really going on and articulate how you honestly feel about it. Be true to yourself and accept how you are feeling, it is OK not to be OK about things. Being authentic is the only starting point to managing change.
• Take the long view and don’t just focus on the present. Understand that there is an arc of time with a beginning, a middle and an end (it will end!). Think carefully about what was, is and will be.
• Remind yourself of what you are trying to achieve and for whom. By reminding yourself that what you are doing is for the benefit or good of others, helps you to keep on top of your emotions and refocus on the desired outcomes.
• If you feel that voice of doubt or negativity creeping in, reframe it in a positive way and with purpose.
• When there is no way of knowing with certainty what lies ahead, or the best course of action to take, there is no time for perfection. Being right before you make decisions takes time and speed of decision in these circumstances is necessary to stay as close to the top of the wave of solution as possible.
• Be kind to yourself and understand that by acting in an urgent, honest and iterative fashion means mistakes are inevitable, but by correcting your course and not assigning blame, is the way to make it through.

 I hope that you find these tips helpful and I wish you the very best with managing whatever changes are happening in your lives right now. We are all in this together and there is a wealth of knowledge and support out there. Don’t be afraid to ask for it.

When I first became a Head, I had ten years of experience in education. I had learned a great deal in that relatively short time on aspects such as; teaching and learning, creating a vision and plan for the departments I ran, understanding children and their needs, working with parents, but less so about people leadership. I think this is why, that now as an Education Consultant, my enthusiasm and work is primarily focussed on developing people, particularly middle and senior leaders and new Heads, in understanding themselves, others and teams.
 
I had some great mentors on my journey to leadership and those that were not so great – we learn from both! However, when I became the leader, I believed that it was important to have a vision, articulate it, translate it and then fulfil it without deviating along the way, despite the challenges. As you can imagine this often led to disappointments, feelings of failure and slow progress. I naively believed, at the time, that to be the leader, you needed to have all the answers and if you didn’t, at least to look as though you did! And that showing any kind of flexibility was an admittance of weakness, or an undermining of your leadership ability.
 
Ironically, the less flexible you are the more likely you are to tie yourself in knots!
 
Fortunately, with the desire of becoming a better leader, I took the opportunity to work with a leadership coach. This was revolutionary for me and I would urge everyone in a leadership capacity, to afford themselves this luxury. I knew I had strengths as a leader and I knew I had weaknesses, but I wasn’t always able to articulate them, or indeed know how to acknowledge them and work with them for improvement.
 
My inability to accept the need to be flexible, once a decision was made, was clearly detrimental for those that I was leading. It was through self-reflection activities and through taking a deep breath and affording a small degree of flex in some scenarios, that led me to begin to trust that having a little ‘stretch’ in the journey would still lead to successful outcomes. I could see that flexibility was an enabler for success, not a barrier to it. In fact, I would say that a leader can only be effective if they have the agility and ability to change their plans as circumstances change.
 
Under the current climate there is an absolute need to be a flexible leader. We are in a time of rapid change and uncertainty and it calls upon a flexible leader to plot a path across these turbulent seas and continuously re-calculate in order to navigate the unknowns.
 
So in the context of leadership, my answer to the question ‘Is flexibility important?’ would be a resounding ‘Yes”.
 
I now need to work on this approach as a mum and wife!

However, purpose doesn’t just land at your feet, it is something that you strive for and seek out. I am proud that through all the adversities in my life, I have always had the resilience and ‘get up and go’, to re-connect with my purpose, or massage it into a new form. And now, is one of those times.

I am finding this time of quiet in the work calendar, filled with a whole new landscape of opportunities and purpose. I have made many new connections; had empowering and engaging conversations with like-minded people who share the same beliefs; taken the opportunity to work on my own professional development; put myself out of my comfort zone in several areas and re-connected with another purpose of mine - my family.

As a wife and mother of two, this reflection time has enabled me to re-balance and take stock of what’s important in life. Personal and professional growth have always been a priority of mine. I love to grow and thrive on challenge which is why I probably found myself as a Head after just ten years. But roll-on another fourteen years having encompassed breaking my leg (the day before a school inspection!) getting married, having two children, losing a child, running two schools, moving to the country, leaving a role I loved (another story!) and starting my own consultancy, I now find my purpose as a mother, at this time, really coming to the fore. That instinctive drive to protect and nurture in times of uncertainty and confusion has fully kicked in. During this period I am finding the desire to provide the routine, the food, the support and love, the security and the fun as my new priority, appropriately balancing it with my work priorities - something, on honest reflection, I don’t think was there before.
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Taking time to really look inwardly and honestly has been invaluable for me on a number of levels. Apart from ensuring my family-time remains a priority, my work landscape is being refined too. I now have a clearer vision of my purpose on this platform too and after this period of enforced lockdown, I will reappear invigorated and empowered by my new purpose!